Friday, July 2, 2010

HaPpY DoCtOr's DaY!!!!!DaD...

D - Dawn Of Relief
O - Obliging
C - Caring
T - Tolerant
O - Omniscient
R - Reasonable/Reliable

D - Diligent
A - Awesome
D - Doctor

That’s what my Dad is….He is the World’s Best Doctor.

I just wanted to express my thanks and appreciation for the wonderful treatment and care you all your patients.

Before your patients come to you for the treatment ,No doubt they are very nervous and daunted by the fear of the unknown but you are so kind and reassuring when they to arrive to you, you take away a lot of their apprehension.

You demonstrate your total commitment into caring for them when they are helpless and you also give them the support and encouragement.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Letter to Mom on the occasion of Mother's Day!!!Love you Mom.......

Hi Amma,

When Time Stucks 00.00 hrs of 8th May 2010..Then please read this letter…

The moment you(A mother) conceived U became Mother,
But on the other hand I(Child) took 8 months and 15 days to come on this beautiful earth and took almost ,
2 and half yrs to call
that One Word that describes
Love, Linking Fondness, Warmth
The word that itself is so warm and it makes me so cozy
A Sweet World around me. The most pleasure giving word that can be rated at the top of the list among all other words
And That word is “AMMA”.


I have never seen God’s face…Whenever I picturise God’s face amma, your face comes in front of my eyes…

There are a couple of times when I have said you Thank you/Sorry….but you would say…'WHY ARE YOU TELLING ME THANKYOU/SORRY'..By telling me u make me believe that if God ever existed ,then He/She would exist in the form of you…

I am Very Lucky to have you as my Mom…,U r my inspiration. You are my angel. My apple of my eye.

Your Smile makes my day. And your Frown spoils/ruins my day..I really mean it…

You are my Life longs best friend, philosopher and guide.

Let me tell u one thing…

Amma…I Have Immense Respect for You and
Love you very much….
U MEAN A LOT ME!!!!!

‘HaPpY MoThEr’S DaY !.!.!’

Letter to Dad on the occasion of Father's Day!!!Love you Dad.......

Dearest Nanna ,
First of all I m sorry as I could not send you this mail yesterday…So 1st Lemme wish you Happy Father’s day!!!(Belated)
The happiest moments of my life have been those which I passed at home as a young girl, nurtured by your love and affection.
I recall the fights we used to have over petty things. I remember how you used to rebuke me about my Jeans and short T-Shirt and over the hours I spent chatting away on the telephone. During such moments, you would become the villain of my story.
But, as time flew and I graduated from college, the pride you exhibited at the successful completion of my studies is still fresh in my memory.
I think of your eyes moistened with tears when I set out for my husband's home. I could feel your worries, happiness, joys and sorrows whirl around me - your darling daughter.
Nanna, You are really important to me. I cannot express what is your position in my life. Let me tell you that you are my source of immense inspiration and courage. I adore you from the bottom of my heart, because you make me feel my true presence. You mean the whole world to me. I consider myself fortunate for having blessed with a father like you. I couldn't have asked for more. You mean a lot to me.
This Father's Day, I just wanted to tell you that you have been the world's greatest dad, friend, philosopher and guide. You have always been a priceless treasure and will remain so forever.
I love you, Nanna!
Urs,
Harita Rambhatla.

I Too Had A Love Story....Ravinder Singh...Hats Offf Ravin..!!For Such a masterpeice..

I got the book on Sunday from landmark(Thank you Soumya..for suggesting me to buy this book)..after i returned from my office I used to read that book..and
I took just 3 days..I mean..(just 7 hrs in total)to complete the novel..The novel made me cry..even the next day morning...when I got up...i have been thinking..about Ravin and his shonimoni...I was so engrossed in reading the book..that i forgot myself...and I thought as i was amongst them.
Usually...,after returning from office i and my hubby sit and talk for a while, what all things happened in office and all...how did our day pass..blah blah and blah...believe...me..when i was reading the book....i forgot everything...and my hubby..came to me and gave me a look..And in that look i could understand..."is this you...who dies to tell me everything and now reading the novel"..and then i reply
to him was..what must be going on ravin...jst imagine..
i too had a love story reminded me of love story-eric seghal...
I jst have only word.Its Awesome.........
and this love story literally made me cry man...
i am unable to believe..How could God be so rude...there are so many old people....who actually want to die..and how could he choose only Ravin's Khusi...i m unable to understand...
enways....,i jst salute to his love.And I also thank him for sharing for wonderful such a wonderful love story with us...

Thursday, June 17, 2010

12-Dec-2007..ThE DaY We MeT FoR ThE FiRsT TiMe.....

Gundello Guitar Moginchave...

Yevevo Silly Thoughts Rapinchave....

The first time I saw Sridhar was in Hyderabad in my Aunt’s Home…I was nervous because it was my first time.He was sitting right opposite to me that was when our eyes met for the first time. Both of us were nervous and scared to start the conversation. Rest of them were busy talking and I was just waiting for the time when we would be left alone to talk to each other. Finally the moment arrived when my aunty took the initiative and took us to another room and left us to speak, He introduced himself by telling 'HI' with me and that is how we began ...went on for almost 2 hours without knowing how the time passed.Our love blossmed each day after that..each chat..each phone call..and each meeting..made us

16-Feb-2008...OuR EnGaGeMeNt...

The right hand does all the writing and dials the phone, but lately, as it performs these mundane tasks. The RIGHT hand,RING FINGER is wearing THE RING. You know, the one every girl dreams about -- or at least I did. SRIDHAR, the man whom I love, and with whom I will share my entire life . No doubt, I was elated, excited, and as the gravity of the situation began to sink in, more than a little confused. I had wanted this -- I knew it was right -- so,why did I feel weird? Saturday Morning,around 9.00 in the morning,the function begun. I felt joyful, but in a kind of dream, that whole day. And the moment arrived when Sridhar and I exchanged our rings.That moment cant be explained in words.
I was so over joyed.I decided since I had come time for wedding , I would better get cracking. I went in search of planning books and internet all about our wedding,the maening of each mantra, flowers, dresses,D.J songs,invitation cards,and most important--my wedding sarees & my jewellary. All things reasonably foreign to me.

8th Nov 2008...OuR MaRrIaGe

Marriage for a me,or for that matter for any girl is a sacred thing and cherishes this wish in the heart of her heart for a long time. I always dreamt of getting married to a handsome,caring,loving person. I found the day, the happiest moment in my life. Moreover, the was a very long and hectic process(but i did not feel,but now wen i sit back and think OMG!!!and i keep questioning myself.....was it me..). From the time the marriage fixes to actually it takes place, both the myself as well as my family members went through anxiety. Everyone was busy with the arrangements and preparations of the marriage. But I really faced a different kind of anxiety. I did not know whether to feel happy for going to embark on a new life or to get worried to think about how will I adjust my self in a totally new family(as from this very moment my surname,my gauthra...i mean my everything changed). For that single day of my marriage and for rest 16 days as I was the centre of attraction of all the people.I was adonred in my bridal saree,wore my vaddanam,and rest of the jewellary..which i was waiting to wear from the day i got them,and even my hair..was made...with flowers...srsly,I was looking stunning....!! Finally I was made to sit in the butta...or the basket....oh my Gosh!!!every girl waits for the very moment...and i was asked to do Gowri pooja....and my mammas' came carried me...from the place where i performed pooja to mandap...and i was made to sit...then the muhurtam time arrived.....wen Sridhar and I were waiting for last 11 months....Jeelakara Bellam(Jeera-Jaggery)....you wnt believe...and after that... wen we both had put Jeelakara bellam on our heads..the whole body vibrated from head to tip of the toe.no doubt i was possessive but after this very moment i become more possessive towards my SRIDHAR my love for him increased more......and even respect also increased...and after this Mangalya sutra Dharana....
"Mangalyam tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna:
kanthe badhnami subhage twam jeeva sarada satam "

which means
" This is a sacred thread. This is essential for my long life. I tie this around your neck O maiden having many auspicious attributes. May you live happily for a hundred years (with me). "

--this is the mantra that Sridhar read and tied the Mangalya sutram around my neck. And then the important post marriage ritual performed on the wedding day is Nagavalli. Saptapadhi, the seven steps & the vows, form part of Nagavalli. I and Sridhar pledge and declare to all those present that they have accepted one another voluntarily. Holding each other's hands,we took seven steps, symbolic of the seven marital vows, around the sacred fire. Sridhar gets up from the seat holding the right hand of mine.He then goes round the Holy Fire (Agni) from the right side, by lifting the right feet of mine step by step. The holy fire Mangala Fera, a great protection against evil, is believed to be a messenger and mediator between God and human. This fire acts as an eternal witness to marriage. the couple circle this ceremonial fire seven times, with the priest's,elders,friends' blessing .we took 7 rounds around the sacred fire representing the seven principles and promises being made to each other .
1st Promise-Together, we will acquire energy to share responsibilities of our married life.
2nd Promise-Together,we will fill our hearts with strenght and courage to accmplish all the needs of our life.
3rd Promise-Together,we will prosper and share our worldly goods and will work for prosperity of our family.
4rth Promise-Together, we will chesrish each other in happiness and in sorrow.
5th Promise-Together,we will raise dtromg and virtuous children.
6th Promise-Together, we will fill our heartswith great joy, peace , happiness and spiritual values.
7th Promise-Together, we will remain lifelong patners in the matrimony.
దురింగ్ నాగవల్లి, a silk cloth cradle was made and a piece of sandalwood, a ripe mango and turmeric was placed in it to pray for an off spring as healthy as the ripe mango, as pure as the turmeric and as self fragrant as the sandalwood. This is followed by a fun filled event where the we fight over who will collect the gold and silver rings dropped in a narrow mouthed vessel. Probably to check who dominates in the new family.( Sridhar won: Sridhar 2 Harita-1)Holding the my left foot toe, Sridhar then helps her tread on a grindstone called sannikallu kept on the side of the fire.The manthras say: "Mount up this stone. Let thy mind be rock-firm, unperturbed, by the trials and tribulations of life" and when it is finished, Sridhar adorns my toes with mettellu, silver rings. At this time the priest showed us, the Arundhathi Nakshtram. (Arundhati, the wife of vasisTha maharshi(the great saint), is exemplified as an ideal wife, the embodiment of chastity. By seeking her blessings, the bride expresses her devotion toward family life.)As a custom, My brother gave puffed rice to the me and Sridhar,which we put them in fire. It is a secondary post-wedding ceremony in which the priest lights a fire to which the newly married couple offer oblations of puffed rice or popped grains (lAja). This shall comprise the my own offering to the sacrificial fire. As she is forbidden to do it myself,my brother helped me. He gives her a handful of parched rice grains which I and Sridhar on my behalf, feeds it into the fire. Through this food offering, I seek a long life for her husband, and propagation of the family. Participation of the bride’s family memberwe stas indicates the continuance of links between the two families, even after marriage. The couple circle around the fire, three times, and the feeding of the fire with parched rice, is repeated thrice.The bride is formally handed over to the groom's family. This is a an emotional and tearful event. Before the bride is taken to the groom's home, her mother puts some rice in the upper cloth of the Madhuparkam and then ties it around the bride's waist.A small silver bowl,a tiny sandalwood doll, the root of yam,chalimidi are added in the madhuparkam.Now Wedding is done. Now we get into our new life. And From now...OUR NEW JOURNEY STARTS........(WHICH WE WERE WAITING FOR!!!)